Important things a sissy should know and do

i think being a sissygirl is not only a persona but also a lifestyle. With any lifestyle there always seem to be things that are important to know and do. Some of the things i can think of are:

1. Gender. A sissygirl can be thought of as being a third gender. Not a real man, not a real Woman, but a sissygirl. Being a sissy, one may strive to be either of the other genders but you'll never be one. Its best being the best sissygirl you can be.
2. Learning. Since a sissygirl strives to be as close to a real Female its best to develop the mindset of what you want to be. A girl. Learn what is important to Women. Feminine clothing. Learn the different kinds of articles of clothing. Learn about makeup. Less is more. Try to make yourself pretty. Feel pretty. Love being pretty. Strive to do what Women do. The way They walk. One foot in front of the other instead of parallel. Always sit down when using the toilet. Real men stand, sissygirl's aren't men. Learn to the way Females talk. Read Women's magazines, etc. Watch Women, strive to be like them.
   
3. If you are a submissive sissy or sissy slave. you must be owned. you must strive to find a Mistress or Master to serve.
   

These are some of the things i can think of. You might have other things you might see as important as well. Please comment them :)

sissy girl

The Journey

Sometimes i think its nice to think back and look how you got to where you are. Starting with the advent of the personal computer i had to get one and then i discovered that connectivity was where it was at. i purchased a 300 baud modem and subscribed to Compuserve. Back then it cost me around $6.50 an hour for the service and $7.00 an hour for the connection. Thankfully they soon provided a local connection that cost 24 cents. i spent many hours wandering the maze of menus on the system and found special interest groups (SIGS). i then found that there was one dealing with human sexuality and from there subjects like exhibitionism, Female Domination, BDSM etc was discussed. For some reason many of these things turned me on to think about especially Female Domination.

Over time i found local BBSs that sometimes featured fetishes and chat boards where you could role play. i felt so turned on by the many hours doing this. One time i subscribed to a service called Larry Land and spent most of the time in the chat areas. i heard that you could be what you wanted to be on the internet so i decided to try being a Mistress. i called Her Mistress Dominana. i thought i really developed Her well and had several followers there until i had a female sub. i felt it was all role play and fun. Until one day.... The female sub asked my measurements and i gave them to her. She saw right through them and told me that bra sizes were never odd and i felt so humiliated. i even tried it again but it just didn't feel right. From then on i would be who i am and not pretend anything. If i was told to do something i would do it as real as possible.

Later i found out about the Internet Relay Chat and its great possibilities. i got on it and soon found an online Mistress whom i served for a year. At the year point i had to move to the area where i am now and really looked at myself. i really needed real life lifestyle experiences. i soon found a couple on Adult Friend Finders and moved in with them over a period of a month. i was first the Mistress's submissive and it soon became Her 24/7 slave. i was with them for about 6 months and then i moved out into my own apartment.

i joined our local BDSM support group and became very involved with it and made many friends. Through them i was introduced to a new Mistress who i served as Her submissive for about 1 1/2 years until She moved away. i was broken hearted but got more involved with the group as a committee member.

i soon found another Mistress who i served occasionally. i really wasn't happy with it all and focused on being a committee person until i found my new Mistress who i met four years ago tomorrow. Tomorrow is Her birthday. W/we met and went out for O/our first date on Her birthday. The following Valentine's day i proposed and W/we were married about a year later.

All this time i felt i was a male submissive. i felt a bit put off every time i read or heard that this or that Mistress expected Her male subs to be sissies, feminized, whatever. i thought, "Can't a male submissive be masculine?", etc.

i then started to examine myself more deeply. i discovered that throughout my life i really didn't have a "manly" way about me. Once when i was talking with Mistress at work and it dawned on both of U/us that i am really a sissy. i am more feminine in a lot of ways. i like to giggle. i like pretty things. i enjoy beautiful music. i have a more feminine body. i also felt it hot to hear emasculating things told to me. i then started identifying myself as a sissy girl.

Mistress wasn't so happy having a girl for a husband but as time went W/we met a bi-male submissive who played with U/us and helped around the house and with a lot of things. Eventually he moved in with U/us. Now Mistress feels that She prefers me as a girl and happy that She also has a boy. W/we live in a Female led relationship and as W/we were talking tonight i think W/we have the dynamics for quite a lifestyle.

i thought about writing about lifestyle vs cyber or lifestyles tonight but thought this appropriate for now :)

sissy girl

my purse

Considering all things, i think the purse is the greatest accessory a sissy should have. Such a feminine article, having one with you at all times accomplishes several things. The first is that is allows you to empty the pockets and carry what was there in the purse. This is wonderful because now you won't have things like pens, lipstick, etc jutting into your thighs and jutting out producing unsightly looks.

Another thing, you can carry many more things that will certainly be useful at one time or another. A hairbrush to tend to your hair. Lipstick to freshen your lips up. Your wallet to pay for things, etc.

The purse is wonderful because all your things are kept in one place. No more scrambling to find your key, your wallet, etc as your leaving to shop. Its all there!

Things i keep in my purse now include:

• Wallet
• lipstick
• Face powder
• pen
• notepad
• keys
• perfume
• breath mints
• second set of ear rings
• baby wipes
• tissues
• change
• cigarillos
• lighter
• cell phone
• hair brush
• comb
• sinus medication
• benadryl
• nail file

There are things to think about as you are becoming more dependent on your purse. Since everything is right there to misplace it can be devastating. So always keep it in the same place. i hang mine on the coat rack.

Another thing to think of is while you are shopping, it is common to put your purse in the child seat in shopping carts. It is easy to wander away from your cart when shopping sometimes. You must not do that! i was quickly reminded not to do that the other day by an elderly lady as i returned to my cart while shopping down a crowded aisle. You might find your purse gone when you return.

Something else to think of is to clean out your purse from time to time. i have a habit of putting receipts in my purse as i purchase things. They can really add up and make your purse messy!

i am so glad that i took the advice and got a purse. i take it everywhere i go now. i don't know how i ever did without one!

curtsy

sissy girl

Cuckolding

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sissy mindset

i don't feel that i am a crossdresser. i do crossdress but i feel that i am more than that. As a sissy i could probably be categorized as a tranny, or t-girl. i love feeling and being a girl as much as i can be. Demasculization which is stripping the masculine from someone is really hot to me. Each 'tipping point' which are kind of like buttons which are pushed resulting in demasculating effects are thrilling.

Hearing Mistress tell me i make a better girl than a guy

Mistress telling me to paint each big toe after painting Her toes and progressing with more and more until i regularly paint all my nails


Starting with wearing panties, then with camisoles to wearing all girls clothes

Being referred to in feminine pronouns (she, her, etc) and hearing Mistress referring to myself that way to others.


Hearing Mistress tell others that i am Her sissy cuckold

Learning mannerisms of females and adopting them for myself; walking, talking, using the bathroom sitting down, etc.

Going out and about thinking of myself as a girl and feeling elated when i hear "Thank you ma'am", or a sales lady telling another that "she is looking for this in pink", etc

Finding myself visualizing myself as the woman wearing this or that instead of the men.

i enjoy listening to feminizing audio as well as cuckold audio. One that i've listened to kind of helps one identify more as a female:

1. Girls love wearing lipstick

Boys don't like lipstick

you wear lipstick

you are a girl

(i say) i am a girl

2. Girls wear panties

Boys don't wear panties

you wear panties

you are a girl

(i say) i am a girl

3. Girls love doing girl things

Boys do boy things

you do girl things

you are a girl

(i say) i am a girl

i find feminine things more and more fun and boy things for me more boring.

i love being a sissy!

sissy girl

Hair

To me hair is a fact of life. It gets into many things; ritual, grooming, removal, etc. The only wanted hair on my body is the hair on my head. All else is unwanted. As a sissy, my goal is to keep the hair on my head at a length that i can fashion it as feminine as possible. i care for it using a good shampoo and conditioner and color it periodically with a store bought coloring kit. Both Mistress and i like my hair to stay pretty and feminine.

As far as the rest of the hair on my body. It is unwanted. At some point in time in the future W/we plan on using a more permanent solution such as laser removal but for now the ritual of shaving is being used.

i shave every other day. While showering, i shampoo my hair then rinse. i then apply conditioner to it. Afterwards i apply shaving cream to my face and leave it on. Next i apply hair conditioner to my legs rather thick. All this time i direct the shower spray away from me. i then shave my face first downward and then upward focusing attention in areas the whiskers are thickest. i then start on my legs. i gently shave the top of my toes and then shave upward from my ankles to my knees all around. Next i gently shave over my knees and then up my thighs all around. i then do my other leg. i have only been shaving upward.

i rinse and then use a wash rag, loompa, etc with a nice oatmeal/shea butter liquid body soap and cleanse my whole body. i leave it on while shaving my under arms, belly, sissy cock, balls, ass, etc. Finally i rinse thoroughly and pat dry.

Like so many GGs (Genetic Girls) and sissies i experience those painful and itchy red bumps but some things seem to help. Using that same oatmeal/shea butter liquid body soap as well as Bikini area lotion seem to help. If the areas get particularly itchy antihistomines seem to help. If i shave more often than every other days the bumps seem worse.

Even though i may get those bumps i feel shaving and being smooth is so worth it. It feels wonderful and helps me feel more girly and slavish. Body hair seems so masculine to me. Something i certainly don't like on me.

i hope this helps!

sissy girl

sissy things, an idea

Hi, i'm sissy slave jamie. i am owned and cuckolded by my Mistress Phoenix. She shares Her house with me and Her submissive and masculine boyfriend. i maintain another blog called sissy slave jamie property of Mistress Phoenix. That blog is mostly about my daily life as Her sissy cuckold slave. i thought it would be a good idea to create another blog that deals with things i learn about being a sissy cuckold slave. Things on how to be a better servant, how to be more feminine, etc. i'm not sure how often i will post to this but i think it may become a good repository for such things.

i appreciate any ideas you may have as well :)

curtsy

sissy girl